Infidelity is it wrong?
Of course it is.... Infidelity is defined as a violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of an intimate relationship. Infidelity doesnt have to be physical but can also be emmotional, but what is worse? To me emmotionally being closer to someone than your partner is worse than being physcially intimate with someone. Granted as far as i no i havent been cheated on so i could be completely wrong, but as least physical its just attraction, with emmotion theres feelings there between your partner and someone completely unbeknown to yourself.
41% of marriages have either one or both spouses admit to having an affair, 57% of males and 54% of females admit to being unfaithful in any relationship they've had. 36% of males and females admit to having an affair with a co-worker or are unfaithful on a buisness trip.
Now, i could go on forever about percentages for infidelity that you can find all over the internet and we will never no how true to life these percentages are being as being unfaithful involves having to lie, but these percentages seem to be fairly high to me. I dont get why people dont just end their relationship before seeing someone else, theres obviously unhappiness with your partner that would lead you to do such a thing.
I have never cheated nor would i ever cheat, the thought of it makes me soooo angry ive been put in situations in the past where close friends have cheated on their partners, but what they dont realise although they think there just hurting their partners, which of course they are, but all the other people that get dragged into their crappy situation, all the people that no whats going on but dont want to be involved that are all made to feel guilty as if it was them doing the cheating.
I was searching through the internet to find information on infidelity and found a number of websites that tell you what to look for, to see if your partner is behaving differently. I understand people want to no what to look for but at the same time having this information so readily available will make people paranoid, they will start looking for these changes in behaviour and start to tell themselves something is happening when its not.
Personally, i think and will never change my opnion it is completely wrong even if someones relationship is volotial then theres better ways to get out of it than cheating it will only spark or worsen the violence or aggression. Theres always another option before being unfaithful it just takes communication or honesty with your partner before it gets to that stage that you can never get back from....
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